Remembering Louise’s Last Days

23 May 2013 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Feature Tags: Death, Family, Grandmother, Life, Poetry

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My Grannie bka Pretty Lady

My grandmother stood approximately six feet tall prior to aging taking its toll on her body. When I was a child she was a little intimidating and a very no nonsense person. She showed loved in straight-forward ways just like her personality. Her favorite way of showing she cared was through feeding you. My grandmother could cook the best chef up under the floor tiles, let alone the table. When I was in my twenties she gave me a music box that was made to hold scented body powder. It was one of my favorite things to play with on her dresser and she wanted me to enjoy it while she was alive. During her senior years when time was wearing down on her statuesque frame, she gave me her old photos. I did not want to think about a time when she wouldn’t be with me but she understood that one day she would pass on.

Two years ago, today May 23^rd my grandmother breathed her last breath. She was hospitalized for a week due to pneumonia. It seemed odd to develop this condition in May a fairly warm month in South Carolina but she did. Some people believe grief is carried in the lungs and six weeks prior to my grandmothers death her only child, my mother had died. One of the hardest things, I have ever done was tell my grandmother her only child was dead. From that point on my grandmother who due to my mother’s illness was put into a nursing facility, began to shrink away.

Two days before she died my grandmother was sitting up in her hospital bed. It was as though she had never been sick. And I thought she would be discharged in a day or two. Her roaring laugh was good and strong, she didn’t need oxygen much and she was alert watching television with me. I had just seen her with my husband on Friday and she was not very responsive but on this day she was doing great. We laughed at some of the remembrances of my mom and just different things about life. She wanted me to bring some hair oil for her scalp. When I left that Saturday evening, we exchanged her favorite farewell saying, I started with “I love you a bushel and a peck” and she responded with “and a hug around the neck.”

On Sunday after church carrying flowers, hair brush, and hair oil I bounced into her room. I was greeted with doctors and nurses working on her trying to make her comfortable. They all wore a look of concern on their faces and I heard the words “she is DNR” whispered. I almost dropped the glass vase of flowers I held. When they stepped away from the bed there was a very swollen woman you was retaining excessive fluid. Literally in less than 24 hours my grandmother had turned for the worst. I left and called my husband, telling him that he needed to come today if he wanted to see her and say his good-byes. I called a few other people too. When I had gone to the cafeteria with my godmother, my grandmother seemed to come out of her semi coma. She was talking to my husband. He later advised that it was a surreal moment.

The next day I stopped by the hospital before going to work. My grandmother was sleeping soundly. I don’t recall if I kissed her but I do remember whispering “that her decision to remain here was between her and God.” My heart ached at the thought of her dying so soon after my mother’s death but the last thing I wanted was for my grandmother to continue to suffer. My intent was to print and bring back work with me in order to work offsite. Early that afternoon, I received a phone call from her doctor who really never said she had died but I knew from his tone. Some kind of way I made the one and a half hour drive. Hoping to see her before the funeral home came and took her body away, I went into the little ICU room where she lay. I removed the sheet to see that my dear grandmother was now zipped up tight. It still hurts my heart that I wasn’t there when she breathed her last breath. However, she wasn’t alone cousins were there with her as she made her transition. They reported that she was laughing and talking to ancestors welcoming her to heaven.

To Grannie With Love

Statuesque beauty you stood tall

you will forever be loved by all.

From youth you spoke with honesty

not always concerned about diplomacy.

A heart filled with adventure and determination

you traveled far and wide to many a destination.

Provided advice to nieces and nephews;

equally tried to weigh both points of view.

Always gave with a loving heart,

for whatever asked you would easily part.

Filled the bellies of family and friends;

seemed like your love would never end.

When over time, life pulled down on your bones,

you sent up silent prayers refraining from bemoans.

Your prayers answered, angels came taking you home

where now you can freely dance, jump, and roam.

Even though those left behind have broken hearts,

we try to accept it was time for you to depart.

Our love for you will never decrease,

we now rejoice because you are at peace.

by: Joyce M. Rose-Harris (c) May 2011

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Hair: The Good, The Bad, The Ugly

19 May 2013 3 Comments

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Feature Tags: Culture, Fashion, Life, Natural Hair

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People with bone straight hair want wavy or curly hair. People with curly or wavy hair want bone straight hair. Recently, I cut off my dreadlocs. There are other known ways to remove dreads or locs as sometimes called but I decided to cut mine. I let them grow out a little allowing for new growth and untwisted hair. I cut just below the new growth and after cutting approximately 95 locs I had a tinsy winsy afro (twa). Initially after cutting my locs I thought “WHAT HAVE I DONE!” I calmed down after doing a good shampoo and deep conditioning my hair. This was until I took the mirror to check the thin area where I had increasing hair loss. My mirror revealed what I had noticed for some time there was scalp clearly visible.

Vanity peeked out taunting me and saying you looked better with the dreadlocs. Nobody is going to like you with short hair. But most of all what will Eric say? I had done my loc cutting late on a Friday and my husband had already gone to bed. I decided if in the morning, I still thought that I looked hideous, I would visit the wig shops near my house. Well, it has now been one month and I still haven’t been to a wig shop.

My New Look

The Saturday morning after my big loc chop, my husband and I awoke together. We sat in bed talking and then he finally said, “okay let’s see it.” I was hesitant to reveal my new look, mainly because my hair texture when dry has shrinkage (natural hair aficionados understand). I timidly pulled off my sleep cap and waited. After a little bit of time my husband said, “I like it. It’s cute.” I breathed a sigh of relief not one to really care what others think, I did want my husband to at least like my new look. We both joked that he would have to get regular haircuts until I grew out my hair, so he wouldn’t have longer hair than me.

Before going on this new journey, I had done research. Just as I had done before I decided on dreadlocs a little over seven years ago. The most useful information I found is ironically called the LOC method. Liquid usually leave in conditioner, oil from bottle or spray, and cream to seal in moisture. I was armed with a naturally made leave in conditioner and oil by my friend and former loc lady of Island Savvy Creations. And after additional research purchased Taliah Waajid curly curl cream, which is amazing and provides excellent curl definition to my 4b/c hair. In doing the full LOC method that first Saturday morning, I had no additional regrets about cutting my dreadlocs.

I am happy to say that my edges which had prior thinning from braids as well as my thin area are both showing hair growth. I am being patient and using hair follicle oil and a temple balm product by Dr. Miracle. I believe that keeping my hair moisture content high and using the follicle stimulating formulas, I will be just fine. It seems a little funny to use the term natural hair, however in the African American community there is an obsession with processed/relaxed hair, weaves/extensions or even wigs full and semi coverage. So in this the 21at century to some it is like running through the streets naked to go with our God given chemically unaltered hair. A tinsy winsy afro isn’t for everybody but if you give it a try you might too be set free.

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In Memory of Mom

12 May 2013 2 Comments

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Feature, Poetry Tags: Family, In Memory of Mom, Life, Mother's Day

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My Mom

Mother’s Day weekend is tough for me. When my mom was living, I would enjoy showering her with gifts this weekend. However, I didn’t wait until Mother’s Day to tell her I loved her or to treat her to dinner. Each month I would do something nice or maybe deposit a little surprise in her bank account. My mom was a good, kind, and loving person. She sacrificed for me when I was growing up and I believed it was the right thing to do, showing her that I appreciated all she had done for me.

This will be the third Mother’s Day without my mom. I decided that rather than focusing on being sad, I would honor her memory with an act of kindness and charity. Through my Facebook page I created an event titled ‘In Memory of Mom’. The idea behind it is for people whose moms have passed, to honor their mom’s memory by donating to their mom’s favorite charity, group, or organization during the Mother’s Day weekend. I will be donating to the Chicago Lighthouse for the Blind and one of my sister-friends is donating to the American Stroke Association in memory of her mom.

It is normal to miss our loved ones and especially our mom during significant holidays. But if we are blessed to have been loved by a beautiful mother we must envelope sorrow in happy memories. If you are like me honor your mom’s memory by helping someone else. And if your mother is living show her love this weekend and always. Finally to all the mom’s out there I wish you a blessed and beautiful Mother’s Day.

Little Wooden Box

Encased in velvet lined pine,

memories lay dormant

coming to life when held;

sparking remembrances of laughter,

love and spankings for touching

treasures now left behind.

Silver ladybug no longer keeps time,

dangling from a tarnished chain

it’s priceless in mournful hands. Rings

once worn to announce engagements,

weddings and anniversaries clink

together seeking a finger to encircle.

Precious metals bring comfort

held against cheek. Carefully placing back

in box cherished mementos, a daughter’s

tears still fall, forming reflecting pool

puddles, remembering a mother’s vessel

that has long ago set its soul free.

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From Whence We Come

06 May 2013 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in From The Editor Tags: Family, Jaime Harrison, Life, Politics, SCDP Chair

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Lawndale Community – Chicago, IL

I am the child of a mother who became pregnant at the age of 20. My father a few years older than my mother, on his own free will asked her to marry him. I never thought to ask my now deceased parents if they would have gotten married without the pregnancy. I grew up on the west side of Chicago where we lived in two and three-story walk ups that consisted of four to six apartments. There was peeling linoleum floors and paint with leaks coming through outside walls. Our street had more vacant lots than it did buildings. Although my parents had financial struggles brought on by various causes, I was raised in an overall stable two parent household.

I could have easily fallen in with the wrong group of people. However, I had a street smart father who ensured that didn’t happen. My father was sometimes involved in activity that could have led to jail time. I believe my mother and I helped my father to change his focus from get rich schemes to more structured and stable behavior.

It is easy to blame the environment in which we are raised for our current condition, especially if we are struggling. When we are prosperous and successful we are less critical of our past. However we are a product of our environment, regardless of good or bad as children we are molded by the situations and conditions we face daily.

Jaime Harrison, SC Democratic Party Chair

Saturday, May 4, 2013, I participated in history as a Delegate at the South Carolina Democratic Party’s 2013 State Convention, when Jaime Harrison was elected as the first African-American Chair. Even in this the 21st century African-American’s still are making strides in being the first in many fields and areas of society. The United States is a diverse nation made up of many races, Native-American; African-American; Caucasian; Hispanic; Asian and other ethnic backgrounds; but because of the discrimination still present, significant accomplishments among minority groups is still applauded. Such successes are even more important in the South, where Jim Crow laws prevailed; and where there is still an underlying current of discrimination.

Jaime Harrison, 37 was born to an unwed teen-age mother and raised by his grandmother in Orangeburg, SC. He did not let the obstacles from his past hold him back from accomplishing success in the professional and personal aspects of his life. If anything the struggles from his childhood helped propel him to success. He is one of many people who show by example, it is not where you come from but where you choose to go in life.

Personally, I am doing better in life than my parents. I am still seeking and striving to achieve various goals but I know that with focus, hard work, and help from others I have the potential and ability to achieve. No matter how far from a goal you may be as long as you have breath, you have hope for success.

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With Humble Hands

15 Apr 2013 1 Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Feature Tags: Family, Life, Love, Mom

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Pound Cake Love

April 15, 2011 at 7:04am marked the last time, I communicated with my mother at least in the earthly realm. She breathed her last breath sometime that morning. But this blog post isn’t to reflect on her death; for that you can look at post from April and May of 2011. Post made on April 15^th as I indicated last year are to reflect on my mother’s life. Her death has impacted me, however, the impact she had on me for almost 45 years is far more important. Last year, I wrote about the love she shared with me and others. This year, I kept thinking about her friends and others who knew her that said she was a humble Christian woman. My mother’s Christian humility lead her to always do acts of kindness for family, friends, and even strangers (but really my mom never met a stranger).

One of the earliest memories that I have of my mother involves her making decorative pillows, she was always doing something creative. The throw pillows she made were very detailed with pucker stitching to make interesting designs. During this same time period when I was around 4 years old, she began to do color by number paintings, her skills were good enough that no one realized her art were paint by number paintings. But my favorite childhood memory was when I was sick and she would check my forehead with her hand in order to gauge if I had a fever. She would then take my temperature, I was always fascinated at how she could read the thin line of mercury (there were no digital thermometers). Then she would either cradle me until I went to sleep or tucked me gently in bed when I was older.

A few years prior to her death my mom found her niche in our church, she began assisting with the Christmas live nativity scene and then the Easter presentation. Her specialty was making angel wings. The Sunday school superintendent had a vision for how she wanted the angel wings to look but she had difficulty explaining it. My mother listened then asked for the materials that she needed. Her creative skills came through as her hands gently began to form wires and feathers into beautiful angel wings. The Sunday school superintendent joyfully would always say, “See Mrs. Betty always knows exactly what I need.” Anyone that knew my mom personally was more than likely a recipient at one time or another of a beautiful greeting card. She bought cards in bulk to give out for any occasion whether birthdays, weddings, sympathy, get well, or just because she had a card.

Still one of my favorite things as an adult was when my mom would cook some of my favorite meals. She loved shrimp and would fry up some with lemon pepper that would have rivaled any restaurant. But one of her favorite things to do was bake pound cakes and make bread pudding. She would bake bulk pound cake cupcakes to give one each day to my grandmother or to people as a treat. If you were special enough you would receive a whole pound cake for your birthday of course along with one of the special cards. However, other than me there was only one other person who was blessed to receive a bread pudding from her with pieces of peach. Her bread pudding was so good, I wrote a poem about it, to read it. One of the last things that my mother did was make a bread pudding the day before she died. It was something so simple but that bread pudding was the last act of love from mother to child with humble hands ( click here to read the poem Bread Pudding Love).

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Faithfully Yours

31 Mar 2013 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in From The Editor Tags: Easter, Faith, Hope, Life, Marriage

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I intended to blog about something completely different, however my spirit lead me to the topic of faith. This morning like millions of Christians around the planet, I attended church. Today is the holiest days of Christianity, we celebrate the resurrection of Jesus Christ in fulfillment of biblical scriptures.

After leaving church my husband and I went home. I cooked a simple but nice Easter dinner of baked ham, baked sweet potatoes, brussel sprouts with bacon, southern macaroni & cheese, and hard rolls. Happily, I finished cooking in time to pack my husband a nice lunch to eat at work (yes his job requires he work holidays). After eating my dinner, I had planned to take a nap but my spirit said otherwise.

And In Sickness

While sitting in my big comfy chair, I started to think about a friend whose wife is in the later stages of multiple sclerosis. I had heard about her being hospitalized and have said prayers for them, recovery and healing for her, for him I prayed for strength. It is interesting that through an unusual circumstance we became associates and I believe now friends. Not the kind of friends who go hang out but the ones who see each other in various circles at work, church, or social/political functions.

Seeing my friend who is from my hometown and his wife together embody the “through health and in sickness” portion of traditional wedding vows. My husband and I have each dealt with the other being hospitalized. Most recently, my husband is now dealing with various medical conditions. However, my friend and his wife show strength beyond measure dealing with issues that couples in their 40′s don’t normally encounter. Faithfully, he is there being the primary caregiver for his beloved wife in addition to working a full-time job and being active in his church.

Faithfully Yours

Christians have not been promised that life would be without trials or tribulations. The foundation of the Christian faith is based in part on the death of Jesus Christ, who died for the sins of the world. Quite simply if God’s son had to live as man and be falsely accused, we basic human beings should expect that we will have our own obstacles along the way. Faith in God and Jesus Christ requires man to relinquish control and sometimes that is a difficult task. But as Christians we must remember that our reward is not in the earthly realm. When there are trials and tribulations that shake our foundation, we must stand strong, It is my belief, ultimately our faith will lead to eternal life because Jesus Christ was born, was crucified, died, buried and arose on the third day. He lives, he lives, he lives today this Resurrection Day!

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Leftovers

03 Mar 2013 1 Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in General Article Tags: Food, Hunger, Life, Postaweek, Social Awareness

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Growing up on the West Side of Chicago it wasn’t until college that I learned I lived in one of the lowest income neighborhoods. Regardless of this fact, I was raised to believed having a roof over my head, food in my stomach as well as clothing on my back meant wealth. Another ah-ha moment in adulthood was after getting married; I realized a few months into my marriage that my husband and I thought differently about leftover food. Leftovers for me are pivotal in planning meals. Raised in a three person household meals were planned to stretch over two nights and one lunch portion for either my mom or dad.

When I moved out on my own I took the two meals and one lunch portion concept with me. However after I got married and expanded the amounts cooked, I noticed a significant increase in leftovers. Discussion with my husband determined that he was not a fan of leftovers. He grew up in a home with a working single mom who could stretch a dollar, she was creative at disguising leftovers. I tried this tactic but realized leftovers gave me comfort. For me leftovers didn’t equate to being poor it was a different form of abundance.

Like my late father I enjoy cooking and make meals I like to eat. I find it a treat to eat a delicious meal two days in a row. Yet above this I find it a blessing to have food to eat. As a child, I never went hungry. I hardly received punishments but when I did going to bed hungry wasn’t one of them. I later learned that as a child my dad sometimes did go to bed hungry but not as punishment. Also I learned that my mother had sacrificed for me going to bed sometimes only having eaten a can of peaches. It still breaks my heart when I think of my mom’s sacrifice but I also feel grateful for her abundant love.

Today, I went grocery shopping. My list was made with the two meals and a lunch portion idea in mind. My husband still is not a fan of left overs but he is better about eating them. He has realized that there are many people in the world who are hungry and would gladly eat leftovers to feed their hunger. I alone can’t feed the world but I can feed your mind with the message that leftovers aren’t so bad when you think of the alternative. Finally if you are able, make a donation to a food bank near you or one of these three organizations, click on the logos to be taken to their websites:

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Posh and Panache 2.0

24 Feb 2013 1 Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Feature Tags: Art, Design, Fashion, M2

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Most days when fashionistas look in their closets, they try to select the perfect outfit. The garments we wear tell our stories. Those stories start in the minds of designers who create garmets for us to wear. Recently I attended Posh & Panache a pre-Columbia Fashion Week event in its second year sponsored by M2 Boutique located at 2317 Two Notch Rd in Columbia, SC. The event included inspiring pieces from the racks of the M2 Boutique. From the first outfit to hit the runaway we were drawn into a world of inspiring fashions. There were blouses singing summer with flouncey fronts and creatively cut out backs. Sleek business attire pieces and a beautiful delicate one piece dress disguised as two piece with a dazzling collar were headliners.

The big surprise of the evening was when boutique co-owner Carissa Strickland announced her upcoming clothing line Ella Jo; paying homage to her mom. She previewed two of her pieces one a unique train wrap piece that can be worn around the waist or as cape just to name a few. In addition she previewed a cowl neck inspired blouse ready for any hot summer day. Additional highlights of the evening were two designers in attendance, Karen Lewis of KTL Shoes and Kayla DeWelt of At First Sight Optical, LLC. Both shoe and eyewear designs provided runway outfits with finishing touches. With businesses like M2 Boutique and other designers of clothing and accessories here in Famously Hot Columbia, you can’t help but find fashion forward pieces for the upcoming sizzling summer days and nights. Scroll down to see some of fashions and people.

Taking Care of Business

Carissa and Malik Co-Owners of M2 Boutique

Breezy Surpise

Fashionista & Designer

Two Piece or Dress?

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I TOO AM AMERICA…

10 Feb 2013 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Politics Tags: Inauguration, Photos, Politics, Travel

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Last month my husband and I took our second journey to Washington, DC to be a part of events for the 57th Presidential Inauguration. We were part of the millions of individuals who took over the district in 2008. And after continually being active as part of both campaigns and helping to move the Obama Administration’s agenda forward, we wanted to be present again. Like 2008, I reserved a hotel room literally one full year before the inauguration, yes I had that much faith that President Obama would be re-elected. And after serving as a National Delegate at the Democratic National Convention, I was even more confident. It never occurred to me that he might loose and I might have to cancel the reservation.

During the journey along I-95, one of my favorite Langston Hughes poems came to mind. It was actually one of the first poems I memorized. The last line of the poem reads, “I, too, am America.” This simple line reflected how I felt during a trip that involved volunteering at the Presidential Inaugural Committee Headquarters; visiting the Russell House Senate Office building; attending the Inauguration in a ticketed area; attending a ground breaking OFA Legacy Conference; attending a White House Policy Briefing for Community Leaders; touring the East Wing of the White House and ending with a visit to the Library of Congress.

For me it just seems right that I would have these opportunities in my nations capitol mainly because my ancestors made it possible. I was raised to believe that any goal I chose to reach, I could achieve with hard work and God’s grace. So it just seemed right that this part of what it was to be American specifically North American was my privilege and right. Yes, I know the reality that there is still racism and ignorance within society but I strive to walk over and through it for I, too, am America.

I, Too

by Langston Hughes

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I, too, sing America.

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I am the darker brother.

They send me to eat in the kitchen

When company comes,

But I laugh,

And eat well,

And grow strong.

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Tomorrow,

I’ll be at the table

When company comes.

Nobody’ll dare

Say to me,

“Eat in the kitchen,”

Then.

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Besides,

They’ll see how beautiful I am

And be ashamed—

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I, too, am America.

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Source: Poetry Foundation Website http://www.poetryfoundation.org

A picture says a thousand words, so here are a few thousand to reflect on…

Golden 2013 Inauguration Tickets

Invitation to the 57th U.S. Presidential Inauguration

Best Mode of Transportation in DC

Volunteering at the Presidential Inaugural Committee HQ

South Carolina Digital Desk for National Day of Service

Learning the Next Steps for OFA 3.0

Friends and Fellows for Obama

Having Some Fun

The Big Day

In the Gold Ticket Area, Happy and Waiting

Hotel Right By Parade Route

My Proudest Photo – Taken with my iPhone

Learning at the White House Policy Briefing

Just Inside the East Wing

Looking Fondly Upon a Late Leader

Some of the South Carolina Team with President Clinton Looking Over Our Shoulder

And We Got Cookies

A Cookie and a White House Thank You

Library of Congress and the End of a Wonderful Trip

All photos are property of the author.

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Interview: Organizer of Reel Black Pix Film Fest

05 Feb 2013 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Feature Tags: Art, Film, Interview, Music, Reel Black Pix

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PaisleyPerspective is dedicated to bringing interesting blogs about arts and social awareness. February means it is the time of year when Black History is highlighted. Also in Columbia, SC it means it is time for the Reel Black Pix Film Festival, which is entering its 5^th year. Having been a participant from the beginning I wanted to provide a behind the scenes look at Reel Black Pix Film Festival with upcoming events starting this Thursday and going through Saturday. PaisleyPerspective spoke with Sufia Giza-Amenwashu who with her husband Baba Seitu Amenwashu are organizers of the festival.

PaisleyPerspective: Describe the purpose of the Reel Black Pix (RBP) Film Festival?

S. Giza-Amenwashu: HeTePu Productions is a non-profit organization that does media literacy, using art as a teaching tool. We produce the REEL Black Pix (RBP) primarily as a Black History month event to honor the legacy of our ancestors and to celebrate family. Secondly, it’s an attempt to promote authentic cultural diversity, through cinema & art, going beyond the normal ethnic festivals of food, fashion and fancy footwork. We want to have an actual conversation and get to know people of other cultures vicariously, so to speak. Our motto is, at REEL Black Pix, you can travel the world without boarding a plane. In essence, the REEL Black Pix: Global Afrikan Film Series is a Pan-African Film & Cultural Arts Festival. It’s multi-dimensional to give an in depth glimpse into diverse cultures across the African diaspora.

PaiselyPerspective: How did you come up with the concept of RBP?

S. Giza-Amenwashu: I’m originally from Southern California and grew up about an hour outside of Hollywood. I always loved the movies growing up. In 1996 I started producing and hosting a cable television show in South Central Los Angeles, SANKOFA Times TV, which over the 10 years of its production, made me see media images in a new light. In my analysis, I realized I didn’t see many positive images of African and African Descendant (Black) people on television, in film or print, so I decided to produce documentaries to both record Black culture & history; as well as, create affirming images of Black people. Filmmaking was somewhat of a natural evolution for me to use a larger canvas, in terms of the telling a story. In 2003, my first documentary, The SANKOFA Study: An Ethno-botanical Research Project on Medicinal Herbs of Tobago, WI screened at FESPACO Pan-African Film Festival in Burkina Faso, West Africa and at ECOFILM: International Environmental & Sustainable Development Film Fest in Paris, France. My second documentary, Toledo District Eco-Park: An Eco-Cultural Tour of Southern Belize screened here in Columbia at the 9th Native American Film Festival in 2006. My last one, REGGAE MILITIS, screened at the Nickelodeon Theater at the 2^nd REEL Black Pix in 2010. I learned how to make films by producing television and learning every piece of equipment in the studio. Independent Filmmakers such as myself can’t get their work screened at lots of film fest for one reason or another. So RBP was also created to give filmmakers who like myself may not have spent tens of thousands of dollars to go to film school, but have quality works that just can’t get screened at other film festivals.

PaisleyPerspective: What ages can attend RBP; do you have films/activities for adults & youth?

S. Giza-Amenwashu: This years RBP will lean toward adults though in prior years we have had components for children, this may be done in the future or as a separate children’s festival.

PaisleyPerspective: How do you find/select the films that you show during RBP and are you seeking specific genres of films?

S. Giza-Amenwashu: We put out an open call every year that runs till December 31. We list the RBP in Film Industry Journals & on Festival Registries. In recent years social media has been very effective, in fact, we have even received films via Facebook with one being a film by a Jewish professor of Women Studies at UNC Chapel Hill, North Carolina about an North American artist, Mama C, who’s lived in Tanzania for the past 40 years. We are excited about the fact that Mama C will be joining us in Columbia starting Thursday.

PaisleyPerspective: How is RBP funded; are you seeking sponsors for 2013?

S. Giza-Amenwashu: Anybody who knows anything about non-profits working primarily with the underserved, know this is a labor of love. Other than a small grant from the Cultural Council of Richland & Lexington County, we’re completely funding the festival ourselves. In the past some events have been free but this year both Friday and Saturday events will have a small admission fee. In addition to RBP we provide Media Literacy workshops to youth & adults throughout the year in schools and community based organizations. We can always use financial support to do both the outreach education and produce the film & cultural arts festival.

PaisleyPerspective: When & where will the 5th Reel Black Pix Film Festival be held?

S. Giza-Amenwashu: 5^th Reel Black Pix is excited to welcome Mama C from Tanzania to Columbia, SC.

Thursday, February 7^th: She will be jammin’ with Skipp Pearson & the Jazz Workshop at Hunter Gatherer in Columbia, SC from 9:00pm to 12:00am.

Friday, February 8^th: You can listen to us on the radio program Evolve With Tzima on WOIC 1230AM from 10:00am to 11:00am and after that she will be speaking to students at Columbia College. Friday evening will be hosted by Azikiwe Zik Chanler where Baba Seitu and Mama C will have an African music jam session at Taste of Jamaica on Beltline in Columbia, SC.

Saturday, February 9^th: We will screen Hoodwinked during the Rell Black Pix Three Round Knockout Slam at Ella’s Café and Lounge in West Columbia, SC starting at 7:00pm.

PaisleyPerspective: What are you doing when you are not organizing for RBP?

S. Giza-Amenwashu: I’m a wife and homemaker; my husband is my first priority. However, my life’s path is one of an artist. Besides producing a film & cultural arts festival, I’m a poet, filmmaker, recording artist, fabric basket weaver and soon will begin working toward becoming a certified yoga instructor. I love the life I live and live the life I love.

PaisleyPerspective: Tell us where people can find more details about the 5th Reel Black Pix Film Festival and where they can purchase tickets?

S. Giza-Amenwashu: You can go to the HeTePu Productions facebook page to get information about prices and additional event details. We look forward to seeing you this weekend.

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Fresh Up

07 Jan 2013 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Feature Tags: Food, Freshniz, izms of art, Postaweek

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In October PaisleyPerspective told you about Freshniz 3 presented by Izms of Art. Freshniz is a way to bring you interesting people in a unique interview/talk show type format. This coming Sunday you have a chance to be a part of Freshniz 4 – The Food Edition. Freshniz is a way to bring creative people to talk about what they do. This event brings foodies from all around.

Here are the details…

Izms of Art presents The FRESHNIZ: The Live Magazine Experience (Food Edition)
January 13th at Rosso Trattoria Italia in Trenholm Plaza

This live magazine experience showcases some of the Southeast’s most interesting and creative people.

The purpose of The Freshniz is to highlight the creative people we know,who are gifted and committed to their individual crafts.

Hosted By: Jah Freedom
Natasha Lorick | Wine and Design
Johnny Smith | Organic Farmer
Bryan Tayara | Our Local Catch
Musical guest | THE Dubber
Live Art from Cedric Umoja

Cost: $40 (Dinner Included) Limited Setting Available
For more information, Call: 803.315.5920 or Email info@theblakmarket.com

Check out the Izms of Art Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/Izms.ofArt) register/reserve your spot.

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Behind Me…Before Me

01 Jan 2013 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in From The Editor Tags: Life, New Year, PaisleyPerspective

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Happy New Year! Today is the 2^nd Anniversary of PaisleyPerspective: blogging about the arts & social awareness. PaisleyPerspective started as a blog dedicated to talking about everything under the sun but it was later decided to reign in the topics and focus on two of my passions. Today I want to take a personal and PaisleyPerspective look back at the year in review, reflecting on what I want to do in 2013.

PaisleyPerspective wishing you a Happy New Year filled with abundant blessings!

Personally and under PaisleyPerspective I was inspired by the creativity of friends and organizations who developed film festivals (Reel Black Pix Film Fest) and did live interviews of members from the creative community (Freshniz Events). But the best event that I covered was in June surrounding the protest of Gov. Nikki Haley’s veto of funds for the SC Arts Commission. With the swipe of a pen she shut down an office including funding for maintaining the state’s arts collections. With great enthusiasm the arts community gathered on the State House grounds in Columbia, SC and showed why they were relevant through singing, dancing, instrumental performances, mini poetry workshops, painting demonstrations, and other activities even in the rain.

On the social awareness side, I was active in the process of becoming a National Delegate to the 2012 Democratic National Convention held in Charlotte, NC. The process began in January and involved participation in conventions on a county and state level. Winning a seat to represent Democrats from the state of South Carolina was an honor and showed what determination and a good campaign with dedicated family & friends can do. In direct correlation with becoming a delegate was campaigning for President Obama and endorsing him as the best candidate. Throughout the year I wrote a few pieces to encourage activity in the political process including voting and volunteering.

Me, my husband and good friends brought 2012 in partying to the legendary band Parliament Funkadelic lead by George Clinton at the Famously Hot New Years Eve celebrations in Columbia, SC. I was happy to leave behind 2011, a year that was filled with grief over the death of my mother and grandmother. I struggled with staying focused on PaisleyPerspective but eventually came back to provide my insight and opinions on a regular basis.

Now we are in a new year. When the clock strikes midnight, we are the same person that we are at 11:59pm in the prior year. However, in addition to a new tax year we enter a new year of possibilities. There are resolutions made that are often quickly forgotten. As for me I choose to make only one resolution for 2013; I will work to continue being the change I wish to see in the world. I do have character traits and habits that I can improve, however, I work each day to be better than the last day. One of the many lessons I carry from my mom is to always seek to do your best and when you fall short, keep at it. So in 2013 I will keep striving at being a better me and working to make PaisleyPerspective a better blog.

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Weekly Photo Challenge: My 2012 In Pictures

30 Dec 2012 Leave a Comment

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2012 was an interesting year for me. My year was surrounded by the campaign for the Presidential election. I volunteered as the State Digital Media Lead for Obama for America-SC but my biggest part was as a National Delegate to the 2012 Democratic National Convention held in Charlotte, NC. There was a little activism around the arts due to the South Carolina Governor’s vetos to most of the states budget. A wonderful tasty surprise from a friend who made one of the best banana puddings I had ever eaten (she even made the vanilla wafers). In summary my year was about being present and active in the things that I believe in. And I plan to continue this activism in 2013.

Running for 2012 National Delegate to the Dem National Convention

Great Husband and Sorority Sisters

Playing in the Rain

‘Nana Puddin’ Love

2012 Democratic National Convention – Caucus Meetings

Making Positive History with Chicago Cop John B (c) 2012 J.M. Rose-Harris

We Won!

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Image by Joyce M. Rose-Harris

Giving

22 Dec 2012 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Feature Tags: Christmas, Delta Foundation, Giving, Hope, Michael J. Fox, Postaday, Postaweek

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My regular Saturday post last week titled “Benevolence” was initially written with the purpose to highlight two charities that I give to throughout the year. However, the tragedy that occurred in Newtown, CT diverted the original intent of that post. This week I would like to highlight those charities and talk a little about giving since Christmas is only a few days away it seems appropriate. When my mother and grandmother were living, I would shop and shop and shop for the perfect gifts for them. On average my Christmas gift-buying budget was about $500. Just a few days out from Christmas, wrapping paper, gift bags, bows, and tags would have surrounded me. This year Christmas is a little simpler with a few gifts for my husband and a few friends but nothing over the top or to fancy.

One of the charities that I consistently give to each year is the Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson’s Research. I do not give a large amount of money but I do send a few checks throughout the year. My father suffered from Parkinson’s disease and some of the impacts of the disease in conjunction with other medical issues resulted in his death. Prior to my father’s death in 1997 I only knew of one other person that had Parkinson’s disease. She was a co-worker, who began to show common signs of shaking hands and some twitching. It was the early 90’s and I was devastated for her. Since that time I have learned more and understand better effects of Parkinson’s disease.

As provided on the Michael J. Fox website: “Parkinson’s disease is a chronic, degenerative neurological disorder that affects one in 100 people over age 60. While the average age at onset is 60, people have been diagnosed as young as 18. There is no objective test, or biomarker, for Parkinson’s disease, so the rate of misdiagnosis can be relatively high, especially when the diagnosis is made by a non-specialist. Estimates of the number of people living with the disease therefore vary, but recent research indicates that at least one million people in the United States, and more than five million worldwide, have Parkinson’s disease.

Parkinson’s disease was first characterized extensively by an English doctor, James Parkinson, in 1817. Today, we understand Parkinson’s disease to be a disorder of the central nervous system that results from the loss of cells in various parts of the brain, including a region called the substantia nigra. The substantia nigra cells produce dopamine, a chemical messenger responsible for transmitting signals within the brain that allow for coordination of movement. Loss of dopamine causes neurons to fire without normal control, leaving patients less able to direct or control their movement. Parkinson’s disease is one of several diseases categorized by clinicians as movement disorders.”

Click here to go to the Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson’s Research website to donate and learn more about Parkinson’s disease.

The second charity that I give to in honor of my mother is the Delta Research and Educational Foundation. I was giving to this charity prior to her death in 2011, however, the Delta Foundation founded by members of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. helps to find solutions to issues affecting African American women and their families embodies my mom’s spirit. She believed in anything that helped children and a large part of the Delta Foundation outreach is related to helping youth. My mother like my father died due to medical issues hers were breathing related; however, I believe that if she were living she would have written a check to the Delta Foundation.

As provided on the Delta Research and Educational Foundation website: “Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. established the Delta Research and Educational Foundation, as a public charity supporting scholastic achievement, public service programs, and research initiatives focused upon African American women.

Today, the Foundation remains strong, vibrant, and poised to meet 21st century challenges with the same unwavering spirit and dedication the Sorority originally envisioned. Our charge to realize social and economic equality for future generations of African American women continues as our guiding principle.”

Click here to go to the Delta Foundation website to make a donation and learn more about what they do.

I give to other charities throughout the year and not only for the tax benefit. I give because I believe each of us who are blessed to do so, should reach out to help others. A former co-worker of mine was somewhat of a scrooge when it came to our company’s annual United Way campaign. His belief was that people needed to save for tough times. His heart was later soften after experiencing a unexpected family crisis, he understood that some things are outside of our control. I agree that we should put away for a rainy day but for many it’s difficult when they are making just above the poverty line much like my parents did when I was a child. My parents worked to make an honest living for our family; however, in tough times the kindness of family and sometimes strangers helped ensure a roof over our head, food in our stomach, and clothes on our back. Even the best planning cannot prepare for unexpected needs we may encounter in life. So I encourage you to give freely to the Michael J. Fox Foundation and/or The Delta Foundation.

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A Poem: Winter Solstice

21 Dec 2012 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Poetry Tags: Poetry, Postaday, Winter Solstice

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Winds swirling, whipping

whirling throughout trees

releasing their final Fall

leaves. Hibernation taking place

throughout natures spaces.

Sleep comes now, letting God

work, creating additional rings

of growth on old oaks.

Preparing bulbs buried deep

for a long winters nap;

be dormant, we shall see

your beauty again in Spring.

by: Joyce M. Rose-Harris © 12/21/2012

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Benevolence

15 Dec 2012 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in General Article Tags: Charity, Life, People, Postaweek

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December is the time of year where many charities receive a large portion of their donations. We are all familiar with the red Salvation Army kettles where for years in my hometown of Chicago received a surprise gold coin donation. Businesses have local food drives to fill food bank shelves. Homeless shelters and church kitchens work to feed the homeless and needy on Christmas Day.

Stronger Together

In addition to seasonal giving throughout the year people give of time and talents. When natural disasters occur here in the United States and abroad we as humans come together to help each other. And when human generated tragedies occur like that on Friday in Newtown, CT the human spirit rises to amazing heights of kindness. During this time of year and this week with tragedy out West and Northeast we must remember that there truly is good in the world.

PaisleyPerspective along with people around the world are praying for those Connecticut families who are grieving after an unimaginable horror. We sincerely send our condolences to the loved ones of the victims from the Newtown, CT tragedy. We know there are no words that can take away the pain you are facing.

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Weekly Photo Challenge: Delicate

15 Dec 2012 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Photo Tags: Photos, Postaday, Postaweek

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Birthday Flowers

There is so much in life that is delicate from the intangible like relationships and memories to the physical like snowflakes and blown glass. However to me flowers always come to mind when I think of something delicate. They can be associated with happiness or sorrow but they always hold a special place in my heart. I think of them as God’s confetti. It seems appropiate to post these flowers that were the center piece for my mother and grandmother’s 65th and 90th birthdays respectively. It turned out to be their last birthdays we would celebrate together.

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Inspired by the Weekly Photo Challenge.

Daily Prompt: Dear Mom

14 Dec 2012 2 Comments

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in General Article Tags: Daily Prompts, Postaday, Writing

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Dear Mom:

This is the second Christmas I will spend without you. I am glad that before you died (it is till hard to say or type that word) we had simplified our Christmas tradition. I don’t even remember last Christmas it is a haze. Life without you has been tough. I talked to you almost every day, I just recently stopped picking up the phone to call you.

I am glad that we openly expressed our love for each other. Our little ceremony of a kiss on each check and the forehead makes me smile. I don’t cry as much as I did last year but I still get teary eyed, like now when I think of you. I truly believe that love is energy and energy never fades, so then love lasts forever. So you are not here in the physical but you are here in loves energy.

Thank you for coming to visit me in my dreams. And I am glad that you and daddy are together again. I have many people here on earth that keep an eye on me and Eric; still it is always nice to have an angel on my side.

With Infinite Love,

Joyce

Inspired by the Daily Prompt

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Opinion: Jim DuPlessis on SC Democrats

14 Dec 2012 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Politics Tags: DuPlessis, Opinion, Politics, SC Democrats

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Over the last five years I have developed a number of friendships with fellow Democrats in South Carolina. When I first became involved with the campaign and political process, I saw things that I believed could be improved. However, when you are new to any organization I believe you should reserve your opinion until you gain more knowledge. I have now been actively involved in the process, locally with Obama/Organizing for America-South Carolina, the SC Democratic Party, local campaigns and most recently being elected 6th District Vice President with the SC Democratic Women’s Council. I believe in the overall philosophy of the Democratic Party, a party for the common person, inclusive, and compassionate. Yesterday, I read a column in The State newspaper written by my friend Jim DuPlessis; reflecting on what Democrats must do in conjunction with the resignation of Jim DeMint from the U.S. Senate. With Jim DuPlessis’ permission, I have posted his words as they were published in entirety.

DuPlessis: Democrats can’t afford to squander opportunity from DeMint departure

I have a lingering bad memory from the 1988 Democratic National Convention in Atlanta. It’s one I remember every time Democrats wonder why they’re not in office.

I was with a friend who had tickets to a convention reception. After spending most of the day outdoors in the summer heat, it felt surreal to step into this vast, air-conditioned space scattered with bars and food tables.

I heard some familiar music. I looked over and saw Stephen Stills standing in the middle of a small crowd, singing and playing guitar. There was no Crosby. No Nash. No Young. Just Stephen Stills and his guitar. He was ringed by mostly prep-school white kids, well dressed down to their loafers. Socks were optional, but longish helmet hair and sunglasses hanging on tethers seemed to be required. They seemed vaguely bored as they fidgeted with their drinks.

I sized them up quickly: sons of rich donors. I would have been merely amused had I been visiting a Republican gathering with Ted Nugent playing the role of Stills. But here, among Democrats, it was nauseating.

I am a Democrat because the party fits my values: practicality over irrational faiths, serving the common good, helping those less fortunate than myself and rewarding merit, not connections. Seeing Stills reduced to a party favor was revolting.

I have that same sense 24 years later as I see the Richland County elections office reduced to a toy of our legislative delegation. Hundreds or thousands of voters were turned away from the polls in November’s election because of needlessly long lines.

From a purely partisan view, Republicans should be getting a good laugh. Here are Democrats who actually control something. What do they do? They suppress votes in the state’s most populous, most heavily Democratic county.

It is against this backdrop that Jim DeMint has decided he will resign his U.S. Senate seat, which will be filled by an appointee of Gov. Nikki Haley for the next two years. In 2014, the three biggest statewide offices will be up for grabs: the governor’s office and both U.S. Senate seats.

I imagine Republicans are feeling like it’s a safe bet that Democrats will squander this historic opportunity.

They might be right — if Democrats behave as they have done in the past.

I believe it is possible for Democrats to win all three seats, but we will need leaders who recognize the priorities of the moment:

• Good candidates are more important than money. Money can be raised to support a good candidate who demonstrates viability by creating a strong organization heavily dependent on volunteers.

• People matter. There are too many intelligent, committed and competent Democrats — of all races — for insiders to waste by appointing the incompetent or uncommitted.

• Details matter. The Richland County election fiasco is the most recent example. Prepare for everything that is on the calendar, and all the parts that make each work.

• Ground means more than turning out the base. In South Carolina, someone claiming to be a Democrat can count on winning 35 percent of the vote without waking up. Getting beyond the core Democratic voters requires intent, effort and no small amount of faith. Candidates need to send their people out into the scary, uncertain territory of persuadable voters.

• Republicans can always count on more money. There is only one resource doled out equally: time. Democrats can’t afford to treat this moment like a game that can wait for the first fall kickoff of 2014.

Mr. DuPlessis, a freelance writer and researcher, worked as a reporter in Birmingham, Ala., Knoxville, Tenn., Nashville, Greenville and Columbia from 1983 to 2008, and for the S.C. Democratic Party from 2008 to 2010; contact him at wiltonians@msn.com.

(Source: The State Newspaper http://www.thestate.com)

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Beauty

08 Dec 2012 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Feature Tags: Art, Culture, Life, Photography

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Have you ever seen a person, place, or thing that took your breath away? There is much truth in the saying “beauty is in the eye of the beholder”. Numerous industries survive on this basic principle; from cosmetics, to fashion, to automobiles to most visually based merchandise we have our own opinion of what is beautiful. However beauty should not be regulated to visual only; we have all heard music that stirs our souls with beautiful melodic sounds.

Red Autumn Tree (public domain)

This past autumn was one of the most beautiful that I have seen in years. I remember as a child walking with my mom through our neighborhood park on Chicago’s west side on a peak autumn day. We collected leaves of each color but my favorites were those in the vibrant hues of red and orange. A few weeks ago I saw vibrant red leaves like the ones I collected as a child. Beauty is often connected to an experience that stirs up a positive emotion or memory. Regardless of culture most humans can agree on beauty within nature from autumn leaves to an evening sunset. However physical beauty varies from culture to culture and I will not even attempt to touch on culturally defined beauty.

When it comes to visual art such as paintings or sculptures we tend to agree more easily on what is appealing. Yet, if two people are looking at a Jackson Pollock abstract there will most likely be two distinct opinions. It is difficult to see the same things in abstract art. One of the first artist that I liked as a child was Georgia O’Keeffe, specifically her paintings from the Cloud series I found joyful. Having access to the Art Institute of Chicago during my formative years clearly defined my taste in visual art. Ancient art to modern art I am inspired by it all, from beauty among the broken shards of a vase dating back to 400 B.C. to Tiffany designed stained glass windows. Recently looking at designs from African Fashion Week I saw items I liked and others that I did not find aesthetically appealing. Fashion is one of those industries that is driven by cultural identity and hence culturally defined beauty. With that said there are designs from U.S. Fall Fashion Week that I adore and others I think are horrendous but as is said “to each his own”.

Sky Above Clouds IV by Georgia O'Keeffe (c) 1965 displayed in Art Institute of Chicago

Beauty is a topic that requires more than one blog post to define or discuss. We all have our perception of what we find beautiful. Some of the most interesting photo blogs capture beauty in unusual ways, from ordinary things the lens can capture a moment of beauty. Amazingly we have enough of the same idea of beauty to have off the rack clothing stores and general merchandise for our homes. Though sadly sometimes we can turn beauty into ugliness when trying to attain perfection. Too much cosmetics or plastic surgery can lead to the opposite effect of what we are seeking. It takes time even for nature to create the most beautiful landscape. If we break down the aesthetic of what we think is beautiful we might be surprised by what we find. We must remember that even within something beautiful there is often imperfections.

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Beauty II

08 Dec 2012 1 Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Art, Poetry Tags: Art, Fashion, Gullah, Photography, Poetry

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In conjunction with the blog defining beauty, sharing some additional images and poetry related to abstract and cultural beauty.

These Gullah inspired woven creations are made by Sufia Giza-Amenwashu who has recently added weaver to her many talents, which include poetess, documentarian, film festival organizer. Be on the look out for an interview with Sufia coming in January.

Sufia's Woven Treasurers by Sufia Giza-Amenwashu (c) 2012

Her name is. . .

She strides with a regal pose

Dreadlocks trail down her backside.

Highlights of copper and gold

weave throughout her crown.

Her physique taunt and limber

like that of a dancer.

She bathes in Frankincense and Myrrh.

The glow of olive oil illuminates her ebony skin.

No catcalls follow her along her journeys

for men are breathless by her aura.

Young and old love her the same

the young see the child within

the old garner strength from love she sends.

Cypress trees bow to touch her lips.

Weeping willows encircle her in tender limbs.

She leaves every place better than before her presence.

Her name, you ask. . .

Her name is, her name is, her name is

Beauty. . .

Most people know Jackson Pollock for his splash type paintings. But early in his career Pollock who was part of the Art Students League of New York created more structured abstract artwork. Look in the lower left corner do you see the drummer?

The Key by Jackson Pollock (c) 1946 displayed in Art Institute of Chicago

Fashion is personal. Some mix plaid and polka dots and others dress monochromatically Whatever your preference your choice in clothing helps to set your identity.

New York Fall Fashion Week 2012

Africa Fashion Week 2012

Belief

01 Dec 2012 1 Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Feature Tags: Advent, Christmas, Faith, Family, holidays

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Today is the first day of advent. Advent is a season observed in many Western Christian churches as a time of expectant waiting and preparation for the celebration of the Nativity of Jesus at Christmas. Local retail stores had Christmas decorations up and shelves stocked for the holiday even before Halloween. It seems that more and more each year the true meaning and purpose of Christmas is lost. In addition to Christmas this month December 8 through December 16 is the celebration of Hanukkah. Hanukkah known as the Festival of Lights, is an eight-day Jewish holiday commemorating the rededication of the Holy Temple (the Second Temple) in Jerusalem at the time of the Maccabean Revolt of the 2nd century BCE.

Nativity Advent Calendar

Both holy or holidays as they are referred to today require us to believe in occurrences of the past. The foundations of the Christian and Jewish faiths are rooted in ancient traditions and history. During a recent stoplight moment a former PaisleyPerspective contributor Mallori Scott saw a live nativity scene reenactment; within three minutes she realized that it is sometimes best to take the Christmas holiday at face value. Today my husband and I observed the first of day of advent by enjoying an advent calendar; we read Isaiah 9:1 and look forward to the remaining 23 days of Advent. It is my belief in the true meaning of Christmas that has lead to less ‘Jingle Bells’ and more ‘Silent Night’.

One of my cherished childhood memories involves watching ‘A Charlie Brown Christmas’. My favorite part of the special is when in frustration Charlie Brown asks if anyone can tell him what Christmas is all about and Linus response with the story around the birth of the baby Jesus. For me this year there will be more focus on the meaning of Christmas, which I believe is the celebration of the birth of Jesus Christ and less on the retail experience. In lieu of a Christmas tree, I am putting out a nativity scene and angel figurines to reflect belief that the baby Jesus was sent to Earth in fulfillment of the scriptures.

Each family has to do what they believe is best for their homes. My wish is that everyone who says Merry Christmas or Happy Hanukkah would stop and think about what these holidays really mean. Let us focus on less hustle & bustle and more focus on helping those in need. And keep that spirit now and all through the coming year along with more kindness to others each day. God so loved the world that he sent his only begotten son to be born of the Virgin Mary. Yes it is a lot to get your head around but it is belief in the ultimate Christmas gift. Wishing you and yours a joy-filled and blessed December.

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Saturday Breakfast: Cinnamon raisin French toast & bacon

01 Dec 2012 Leave a Comment

Image by Joyce M. Rose-Harris

A Thanksgiving Nightcap

22 Nov 2012 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in From The Editor Tags: Family, Food, Holiday, Poetry

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I was raised as an only child in a two parent household. Most holidays were spent with aunts and uncles at various family members homes; however my parents regularly cooked a full holiday meal. Usually my dad would roast cornish hens instead of a turkey on Thanksgiving; there is only so much turkey a three person family can eat. The sides would vary sometimes the vegetable would be a type of greens either collards or a turnip and mustard mix. However there was staple treat that my dad usually made, ambrosia salad was a normal part of Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays.

This is the second Thanksgiving since my mother’s death that I have celebrated. Last year I didn’t cook but this year I cooked up a feast for I am thankful for so many things. One of them is the fact that my mother decided to make ambrosia salad fours years ago for Thanksgiving. My father had been deceased for 11 years when she made a memory in a bowl but it taste exactly like my dad’s ambrosia salad; and with it brought back a multitude of memories. A poem was born that day that captured my fathers essence and now it makes me smile because within it is my mom as well. I am not ready to make the salad myself but I could not let Thanksgiving past without sharing the poem with my PaisleyPerspective followers, enjoy.

Ambrosia Salad Memories

Thanksgiving morning mom up early

pulls from kitchen cabinets and refrigerator shelves

coconut, sour cream, fruit cocktail,

pineapple, mandarin oranges, and maraschino cherries.

In one big rush, I’m back to age 10

when my dad used these ingredients

mixing them into ambrosia salad.

His love was in his hands and culinary creations

he would cook with care, baritone laughter booming

against kitchen walls, shaking old window casings

scents from our apartment tickling noses of neighbors.

Dad’s hands grated potatoes to make pancakes

for big breakfasts with cinnamon apples

and sausages sizzling on top stove’s gas burners.

Never did I realize how firm the food connection ran

within my memories succulent scents of ham,

collard greens, yeast rolls, and macaroni & cheese

make me remember happy Easter Sundays.

My dad was taken by God’s grace on a Sunday

June 15, 1997, Father’s Day baritone laughter died.

I miss him and all the messy kitchen pots and pans.

by: Joyce M. Rose-Harris © 11/27/2008

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Untraditional Thanksgiving Meal

22 Nov 2012 1 Comment

Untraditional Thanksgiving Meal

Walnut & apple dressing with pork tenderloin, brussel sprouts, & cranberry relish sandwiches.

Image by Joyce M. Rose-Harris

Interview: Never To Young…To Give Back

22 Nov 2012 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Feature Tags: Faith, Family, Food, inspiration, Interview

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When I was 10 years old, I was thinking about the next Nancy Drew mystery I would read, sitting outside with friends and writing about daily events in my diary. When I was 13 years old, I was getting fashion advice from the pages of Seventeen magazines, giggling when boys walked by, and was nervous about attending high school. Talking to pre-teens and teenagers today you will often get similar responses if you ask what is important to them. However, in addition to these items, a young member of my church is helping to change lives by feeding families.

Miss Fatimah H. who lives and attends church in the Midlands of South Carolina, decided at an early age to help take care of the planet and help those in need. Sunday it was announced during service that she has fed 15 families this year; I was inspired to share her story. Fatimah shows by the responses below that with an idea and motivation we can all give back. Today is Thanksgiving and around the United States families are celebrating and giving thanks. In addition to life, love, and family, I am thankful for a young lady who believes in God’s love, caring for the planet, and giving back.

Paisley: How and when did you first come up with the project/idea for feeding families?

Fatimah: I was 10 years old when I first came up with the idea. I wanted to help others like Christ helped. So, I came up with the idea to help the planet and others by recycling cans.

Paisley: Collecting cans to sell for money is a creative idea; what made you think of it?

Fatimah: I wanted to do my part to help the planet for the future. Recycling cans helped with that as well as helped me to buy food for families.

Paisley: How many families have you fed since you first started?

Fatimah: I have fed 30 families.

Paisley: What motivates you to help feed families?

Fatimah: My love for God and His people.

Paisley: How old are you and what do want to be when you grow up?

Fatimah: I am 13 years old and I want to be a Veterinarian.

Paisley: What words of advice do you have for other young people you might have an idea to help someone in need but do not know how to get started?

Fatimah: Pray and ask God for guidance, ask your family for help then JUST DO IT.

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I Am An Obama Volunteer

10 Nov 2012 1 Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Politics Tags: current-events, Life, Obama, Politics, Volunteer

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In 2007 when the candidates for the Democratic Party began emerging I began my research to determine whom I would support. Wait let me back up a little even before that time. I volunteered during the re-election campaign of President Clinton in 1996, while still living in my hometown of Chicago, IL making phone calls. The phone calls I made to garner and retain support for President Clinton included little known local candidates Rod Blagojevich and Barack Obama. I chose to make calls for the South Side candidate Obama, mainly because I could pronounce his name. During the victory celebration at the Hyatt Hotel I shook hands with State Senator elect Barack Obama and hugged his beautiful wife Michelle.

Now back to 2007, there were a lot of people talking about the Senator from Illinois and how dynamic his speech was at the 2004 Democratic National Convention but they were supporting Senator Hillary Rodham Clinton. At this point I was a 10 year resident of the first in South primary state, South Carolina. I chose to research and determine the platform of each candidate before making my decision and quite simply Obama’s website contained the most detail. Clinton’s contained the least, so on April 27, 2007 after seeing and hearing then Senator Obama speak at the world famous Jim Clyburn fish fry, I chose to support Obama for President. In May 2007, I was one of four people to attend one of the first volunteer meetings, which would grow in size needing to meet in the Columbia Convention Center.

Republicans are still sitting a little dazed and confused after President Obama’s re-election this past Tuesday, November 6, 2012. They didn’t believe in the ground game that individuals like National Field Director Jeremy Bird who I personally worked with and know spoke about to the media. But I can say yes there was and still are an extensive amount of active supporters of President Obama. We do not merely support him in words and rhetoric but in action by stepping up and volunteering using basic grassroots tools. We learned how to win from the President himself, once a Community Organizer. And some of the best campaign strategy was created in the campaign office located on the corner of Calhoun & Assembly St. in Columbia, SC. This strategy would be fine-tuned and grow to help lead Obama to victory in 2008 and now in 2012.

Quite simply this re-election campaign was successfully because of a structure formed five years ago and developed way before that time. Supporters like me who were active not only during the election process but who helped to move the Obama Administration agenda forward made it possible. We are the backbone of a well-managed organization where the life’s blood is the data that was collected by the work we did. In addition, the majority of this organization was funded by donations from the 47% that Romney didn’t think would vote for him. I am proud to have stepped up way back when to volunteer for a little known Barack Obama and I am even more excited to see President Barack Obama re-elected for four more years.

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Recap: The Freshniz Vol. 3

14 Oct 2012 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Art, Music Tags: Art, Freshniz, izms of art, Music

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Saturday, October 13^th Izms of Art an organization of artist doing artsy things held it’s third Freshniz event. What is Freshniz you ask? Well it is a unique fusion of creative individuals interviewed in front of a live audience. This installment included an architect, martial artist, painter, and a producer of music among other things. Normally present is DJ B with an eclectic mix of music; however, though he was absent those in attendance received a special DJ B mixed cd. The cd contains 30 songs running over 1 hour of music.

Architect Tripp Riley principle architect with Studio 2LR located in Columbia, SC was the first interview. Tripp described Studio 2LR as a boutique firm that caters to a client looking for unique and innovative design. Known for designing a residence that has been deemed a spaceship house Studio 2LR is definitely not a cookie cutter architecture firm.

We learned about the art of Capoeira Angola a form of martial arts and dance from two local instructors. We learned that it was and still is practiced in the Congo and was brought to the United States and hidden in the form of dance. To the naked eye it is a performance art. Be on the look out for possibly seeing it performed live at an upcoming First Thursday event.

The third interview was with Whitney LeJeune a local artist known for painting with focus of human form and elements such as a hand or leg. Her paintings also mix vibrant colors together pulling the eye to the focus of a particular painting. Having studied at SCAD she decided to make Columbia her home and works as a full-time artist.

Jah Freedom was the fourth and final interview. By day he has a regular 9 – 5 but by night he is a producer of music among many other ventures. His music and beats have been used by television shows such as Pimp My Ride and Cribs as well as most recently in a Brooklyn Nets commercial. He explained that he can stay up for hours getting a track just right.

Each of these artist have a different medium but all of them share a passion for their art. Freshniz is a good way to bring together artists of different genres. I applaud Izms of Art for bringing together these five individuals who are pivotal in their genre.

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A Brother Remembers – USS Cole Attack

12 Oct 2012 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in From The Editor Tags: Family, Memories, USS Cole Attack

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On October 12, 2000 I like the rest of the world learned about the attack on the USS Cole while docked in Aden, Yemen. 17 naval personnel were killed and 39 injured as result of the bombing that blasted a 40 by 40 ft. hole into the side of the ship. My heart went out to the families just as it did with any massive tragedy orchestrated by man. I thought it a senseless attack but overtime the attack went to the back of my thoughts. However, there were 17 families whose lives were forever changed by the event a world away.

Cherone L. Gunn
(b. 1978 – d. 2000)

In May 2007, I crossed paths with a man by the name of Anton Gunn while attending the 2007 Black Expo in Columbia, SC. He was the first employee hired in South Carolina as State Political Director for the Obama Presidential campaign. Physically he is a force to be reckoned with at approximately 6′ 5″ and former football player for the USC Gamecocks. I had already decided to support then Senator Obama but was encouraged to also volunteer by Anton. Later conversations would lead to the discovery that Anton Gunn is the older brother of the late Cheron L. Gunn, Seaman United States Navy one of the crew killed in the USS Cole attack.

Anton a driven, dedicated man to social issues and making this world better for his daughter, makes USS Cole attack not merely a memory but a reality. He credits his younger brothers death for being in large part the reason “why I get up every single morning to try and make a difference in this world.” Today for the Gunn family and 16 other families was a day of remembering loved ones taken before they had the chance to see their full potential.

It is not my intent to dissect foreign policy or even discuss the pending trials for some accused. My intent is to shed light on the impact of the death of a younger brother. Coping with death is difficult and we all handle it differently. For many comfort comes from pen and paper; and writing out our words mixed with memories and tears. By permission of Anton Gunn below is a letter he wrote to his younger brother exactly two months after his death on the USS Cole:

Little Brother,

It has been 2 months to the day that you left us. Since that day I have been trying to find the words to say what I really feel about all that has happened. I still can’t say totally, and I don’t know for sure what I feel. I can say that, I miss you. I hurt to know that you aren’t coming home in February. I hurt to know that I won’t ever see you again on this earth. I hurt to know that you were taken away from us by a senseless, cowardly act of ignorance! I will never understand why the innocent are punished and the guilty remain unpunished. I know you probably understand all of this, from your position by God’s side. I pray that I also have that understanding one-day. But, until then I will remember you as you were, my little brother.

The brother that would call when he needed advice. The brother that would call to critique the latest Hip Hop CDs. The brother that would call and talk about how well the Oakland Raiders are doing (by the way they are pretty good, this year). The brother that would always show how much he loved people. The brother that made it to my wedding, even though you had to report to your ship. The brother that made his own path and followed in the footsteps of no one. The brother that was the “big” brother to Jason and Jamal, after I left for college. The brother that learned by doing. The brother that worked hard at everything you did. The brother that would unselfishly give is last to make sure others were taken care of. The brother that helped me to realize what is really important in life. The brother that joined the US Navy to see the world. The brother that served unselfishly the entire time in the Navy. The brother that loved life with a smile. The brother that died a national hero. The brother that died protecting the freedom we once took for granted.

Cherone, you are my hero. You are wonderful example of how we all should live. Your spirit of unselfishness will remain with me forever. October 12, 2000 will never be forgotten. I will do my best to make sure that no one ever forgets that day. That is the day you were take home to be with God. That was the day 17 families were changed forever. That was the day that my life stood still. That was the day we all were reminded of how precious life is. You physically are not with me anymore, but spiritually you will always be by my side. You are my Guardian Angel. Protect me as the Lord protected you. I LOVE YOU.

Your Big Bro,

Anton 12/12/2000

This is written in memory of Signalman Seaman Recruit Cheron L. Gunn and the 16 individuals killed on October 12, 2000 during the USS Cole attack. Your families and I will not forget you.

USS Cole Memorial

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Happy Birthday Daddy!

11 Oct 2012 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in From The Editor Tags: Family, Life, Memories

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It is not easy when a parent dies. Make it two deceased parents and even as an adult we can feel like an orphan. Today would have been my dad’s 76th birthday. My dad loved his birthday which is how I learned to love mine. In June for Father’s Day, I reflected on his life. Today, I honor him by continuing to be the person he taught me to be.

My dad helped instill in me self-confidence. He did not believe in men abusing women and taught me how to defend myself at an early age. I learned how to cook in part from my dad as well as how to make it through tough times. I also learned what not to do when stressed by life.

As stated earlier I will honor my dad by continuing to be me. Staying socially and politically aware and being involved in the arts. Cooking a hearty pot of chili and turning up the stereo. Or getting a stack of my favorite books and re-reading them. Overall enjoying life each and every day that I have breath honors my dad best.

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PHOTO RECAP: COLA-CON 2012

08 Oct 2012 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Art, Music, Photo Tags: Art, Cola-Con, Comics, Music

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A few memories of Cola-Con 2012 captured via iPhone.

That’s all folks.

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THE END

COLA-CON 2012 LIVE

06 Oct 2012 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Art, Music Tags: Art, Cola-Con, Comics, Music

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Today is the second day of Cola-Con 2012. Cola-Con is a fusion of hip-hop, comics, and culture and it is being held at the Columbia Museum of Art in downtown Columbia, SC. In it’s second year Cola-Con brings together the world of comics and music into one big convention-festival.

Old School and New School

Cola-Con started in 2011 by hip-hop artist and show organizer Preach Jacobs and comic book creator Steven Prouse. It opened to a sell out crowd with featured guests Talib Kweli, 9th Wonder, Sanford Greene, and Jody LeHeup. Last nights featured guest was Ghostface Killah from the legendary Wu-Tang Clan. And tonight’s featured guest is Phife Dawg from the legendary A Tribe Called Quest.

Women In Comics Panel

Hosted for the first two years by The Columbia Museum of Art, Cola-Con holds all forms of art, music, and “alternative” culture in highest regards and hopes to display them respectfully while keeping an informal, fun atmosphere. There are workshops and panels like Women in Comics and How to Get Started and Published. This event is geared toward older teens and beyond so come out and be inspired and learn something new.

Written By Women and About Women

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Your Vote is Your Voice

02 Oct 2012 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in From The Editor Tags: Civil Rights, Politics, Voting, Women' Rights

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The below content was written as a Facebook post but then I began to think that it would be good to post it as a blog.

In between not feeling well there has been something gnawing at my spirit. There is a young person (I will not note gender) who I believe is not registered to vote nor desires to engage in the election process. I respect their choice to not be part of the process but I do not agree with the decision. So this is in most part going out to them.

From Women’s Suffrage Movement…Not So Long Ago (Public Domain)

I want to encourage them to register to vote by 12 noon on October 6^th and consider voting during this election cycle. Everyone knows that I support President Obama but some may not know specifics. So here is one of the primary reasons, his active support of Women’s Rights. From the first law he signed ‘Lilly Ledbetter Act for Fair Pay’ to his support of my right to choose what I do with my body, I know that he values me as a woman. There are other reasons such as the inclusiveness of his campaign where people of all races, creeds, genders, ages and gender-orientation are respected and valued.

After Signing Voting Rights Act 1965 (Public Domain)

I could go on and on of why I support President Obama but the main thing is supporting a process for which other countries citizens fight and die. One of the biggest issues in the next century will be truly setting women free to be who they wish to be. Anyone who supports a woman’s right should cast a vote. I have voter registration forms in my car the first step is to register…then we can work on casting the vote. Finally, I do not expect everyone to agree with what I support but I believe it is important to be present in the process. To anyone who wishes to register let me know and I will walk you through the process. I truly believe your vote is your voice, don’t be silent.

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Poetry, Pictures, & Politics

01 Oct 2012 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Photo, Poetry, Politics Tags: Photos, Poetry, Politics

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September 2nd through 6th contained numerous events surrounding the 2012 Democratic National Convention held in Charlotte, NC. The event had many goals but the primary one was the nomination of President Barack Obama and Vice President Joe Biden as the Democratic nominees. Along the journey each day from pre-convention to closing gavel held excitement in the air. Previous poetry written and current photographs taken by me and fellow National Delegates reflect the memories and the moments best.

Dry Run and the Arrival

Pre-Convention Events

Atlanta, GA – Business Trip

The little brown girl inside me wonders

will those around me acknowledge my presence?

Should bellhops be hailing me taxicabs

and I the one tipping the staff?

Yes ma’ams thrown out to me easily

while I look out the window, to see a rag woman.

She pushes a cart clinging with cans

people looking away as she passes by.

The little brown girl inside me wonders

do I belong among the elite?

Should I be here among marble floors

waiters and waitresses at my disposal?

Dining on six and seven course meals

while listening to a violinist play Mozart.

People standing in line waiting to be seated

while I sit with CEOs and company presidents.

The little brown girl inside me wonders

about the little brown girls of tomorrow.

She sits up tall so that she might shine

for those following the path she tries to pave.

Brushing off dirt left by today’s society

she lifts their chins while lifting their self-esteem.

Letting them know that they too belong

among marble floors sitting with the elite.

Celebrity Supporters

Media Frenzy

We The People

“We support President Obama because he helped save our jobs. We are auto workers and we will help save his job.” - Erica O,, Tammi L., & Mozelle L.

“I’m looking for the person who will bring our boys [troops] home. And I believe that person is President Obama.” – Charles L Buffalo Soldier Reenactor & Vietnam Veteran

Some Of My Convention Highlights

AN INAUGURATION OF HOPE

I feel the energy of those long gone

they’re coming back now for one last look

to see a native son with African roots

that run deep through Kenyan soil

with blended blood from European

and Cherokee love pumping through his veins

put his hand upon a Bible of another great man

who helped free those shackled and chained

mentally physically contained within fields

picking grains and cotton under the hot broiling sun

while being overseen with a whip and tar

the tide is turning toward a trail to change

where tears helped mat down dust that rose

with hatred by those who rode through the night

wearing white but carrying hate dark and deep

the energy is pushing away the years past

opening up for future possibility of chants

yes we can, yes we did, and yes we will do

we will do what is needed to ensure that generations

to come will be blended into one nation indivisible

under God no matter what the atheist say

we will work to lift up this man with his hand

on a Bible taking on the challenges of today

and tomorrow we will show him honor with respect

always remembering that ancestors are watching

they are nodding approval because maybe now

deep festering wounds can begin to heal.

Initially Published in Home is Where: Anthology of African American Poetry from the Carolinas

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*The rally cry “Fired Up and Ready to Go” has roots in the NAACP but was brought into the Obama Campaign by a supporter and councilwoman from Greenwood, SC and 2012 National Delegate.

Poetry: We Still Remember

11 Sep 2012 2 Comments

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Poetry Tags: 9/11, Life, Poetry, Politics

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Though tears are shed less frequently

hearts longing is not as painful

we still feel empathy for families

seeking to fill the void of loss;

lives changed long ago on a sunny day

work halted and freedoms shattered

with souls leaping from upper floors;

today we still remember, lighting candles,

reading names of victims who became part

of bent steel reidbar, broken glass bits, and rubble;

memories of dust rising over a metropolis

enveloping it in a blanket of fear, still haunts us.

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We Still Remember

11 Sep 2012 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in From The Editor Tags: 9/11, Life, Politics

Update: 2012 DNC Through A Delegates Eyes

05 Sep 2012 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Politics Tags: 2012DNC, Life, Politics

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This is day two of the official part of the 2012 Democratic National Convention and I have been proudly participating in the process. Monday began with caucuses including the African American caucus. Monday speakers spoke about moving forward and encouraging our community to vote.

Tuesday included the Women’s Caucus where we heard from Donna Brazile who reminded us we are the backbone of our families. We also heard from actress and activist of human issues Ashley Judd, who stated: “it doesn’t matter where or with whom, rape is rape.” There was also a rally by Planned Parenthood. Women’s rights to there bodies are in jeopardy so we must keep that in mind this election.

Last night during the first day of the DNC with opening gavel at 5:00pm we were also encouraged and inspired. Speakers included a Fire Fighter and former Republican because he has been left behind by the Republican Party. In addition there were Democratic heavyweights like U.S. Rep. Nancy Pelosi, Chicago’s Mayor Rahm Emmanuel, and Joseph P. Kennedy III but above all First Lady Michelle Obama provided an inspiring and straight message to all in attendance and watching on TV or via the internet http:///www.demconvention.com

Even though my feet are tired and I’m lacking some sleep this experience is AMAZING. opportunities like being elected a National Delegate don’t happen every day. Before opening gavel I did take the time to take in the venue evening venturing to the lower level on the actual floor of the convention.

Over the DNC

This second day has just gotten started but I was graced with hearing the First Lady speak at the last meeting of the African American caucus. And was interviewed for my reaction to her speech. So I would say today has started off pretty well. Check out few photos of the last few days.
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On the Floor of the DNC

First Lady Michelle Obama

National Delegate and National Staff

Day One Recap: 2012 DNC Through A Delegates Eyes

03 Sep 2012 1 Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Politics Tags: DNC2012, Life, Politics

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Today was check-in day for me in Charlotte, NC for my week as a delegate to the 2012 Democratic National Convention. When elected in May for this opportunity, I didn’t initially intend to blog about the experience. However, I realized that this was a unique chance to share my experiences including welcome parties and other events in addition to the work that is done with caucus meetings and the actual convention that starts on Tuesday.

Entering NC for 2012 DNC

My fellow South Carolina delegates and me had a chance to discuss various issues as well as the journey to becoming a delegate with Winthrop political science students. There were questions concerning some of the Presidents legislation signed. However with astute responses by a Democratic panel that focused on the many positive accomplishments of the President students left feeling encouraged to continue to support President Obama. Immediately following the student forum was the welcome party for Tennessee, Georgia, North Carolina, South Carolina, and Virginia delegations at the NASCAR Hall of Fame.

There was a good time mingling and meeting delegates from the various five states. But most importantly was the welcome addresses given by Charlotte Mayor Anthony Foxx, Democratic National Convention CEO Antonio Villaraigosa, Democratic National Committee Chair Debbie Wasserman, and U.S. Congressman Jim Clyburn. We were encouraged to stay focused and do the work of Democratic Party to ensure that President Obama is re-elected in November. My night ended with a nice dessert and wine social in my host hotel.

Along the way there was some challenges and realities of the need for flats instead of heels (even wedges). Waiting for shuttles and the fact that street closures change from one moment to the next. There was also a brief rainstorm that put a damper on a long walk to an event. Yet overall this first day has been like sticking my big toe in a swimming pool to test the waters. Tomorrow begins caucus meetings and an event that everybody wishes they could attend the John Legend concert specifically a Carolina only event. I must admit it is good representing South Carolina the state where my roots run deep.

Photos related to the events of the day will be in a separate post, so check them out after reading the daily recaps.

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Day One Photo Recap of My 2012 DNC Experience

03 Sep 2012 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Politics Tags: DNC2012, Photography, Politics

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Entering NC for 2012 DNC

Arriving in Charlotte

Panel at Winthrop Forum

Democrats WOOHOO!!!

Teddy – Our Shuttle Driver

Welcome Party for GA, NC, SC, TN, & VA

The Venue

Fellow Delegates and Democratic Supporters

Democratic Party Leadership – Debbie Wasserman, Chair

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From The Beginning Of Time…

28 Aug 2012 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Feature Tags: Family, Life, Opinion

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From the beginning of time there has been disobedience by human-beings. We learn from the Holy Bible that Adam and Eve were both disobedient; they ate of the tree of knowledge against God’s instructions to Adam. This act of disobedience banished them from the Garden of Eden. They would forever have a life that would include toil and pain. Cain the son of Adam and Eve committed the first murder, killing his own brother in a fit of jealously.

Today, I write this reflecting on the fact that a 52 year old man was arrested for the abduction of a 15 year old girl. Initial information provided by authorities show Gabbiee Swainson was taken by force from her home in the early hours of Saturday, August 18th. There are other pieces to the picture that are missing but over time will come together for full picture.

When I was younger I did not believe in the death penalty. I believed that all individuals could be rehabilitated. However, I am in my 40′s and have seen more than enough in life to sway me a little away from that belief. However as a Christian, I am taught to let God be the ultimate judge and jury, therefore I should not wish death upon anyone. Yet, I think of what seems to be a calculated effort that went into the abduction of Gabbiee and I think maybe the death penalty is needed. I try to ignore the angel sitting on my shoulder that whispers “what about those who are innocent and sitting in a prison cell?”

I realize there are no easy answers because even for what seems to be clear cases of guilt there is a possibility of innocence. However, it seems that this case is straight-forward. In addition it is speculated that there may have been another person abducted by the accused.

I send up prayers for Gabbie’s family. I cannot imagine how her mother feels during this ordeal. Something of this magnitude changes you forever. For parents of young people don’t allow fear to rule your actions. We must remember that from the beginning of time there are human-beings who do bad, evil, and hateful things to other human-beings. However, we must believe that light came first and light washes away the darkness. My belief is the greater good shall always prevail.

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Prelude to 2012 Democratic National Convention

28 Aug 2012 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Politics Tags: DNC2012, National Delegate, Photography, Politics

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In exactly one week the opening gavel of the 2012 Democratic National Convention will call the convention to order. PaisleyPerspective will have access on the floor when I attend the convention as a National Delegate representing South Carolina. This is a unique opportunity for me and approximately 5,000 citizens of the United States and its territories. Individuals of all demographics will come together to set the Democratic Party’s platform for the next four years as well as most importantly nominating the President and Vice President as our candidates for this years Presidential Election.

Though the conventions official start is not until September 4^th delegates will begin to arrive on Saturday and Sunday; and will attend delegate welcome parties. The South Carolina delegation will meet with students of Winthrop University and other colleges from across the state to discuss the process that lead them to being a delegate. On Monday, Labor Day there will be fun festival CarolinaFest that is open to family, friends, and the general public. But then on Tuesday the work of delegates will begin.

The process for becoming a National Delegate may vary some slightly from each state but largely impart it is the same process in all the state democratic parties. Within South Carolina the process usually begins in January with statewide precinct meetings in each county. It proceeds with county conventions that lead to the state convention where delegates like myself run hard and heavy to be elected as a National Delegate.

During a quick trip up to Charlotte this past Sunday, I was able to do a quick visit to the Charlotte Convention Center as well as walk around the streets that will be jam packed next week. Below are some pre-convention photos that I took. Stop by on Sunday, when I PaisleyPerspective will bring you live blogs and tweets from the 2012 Democratic National Convention in the Queen City.

Near the Charlotte Convention Center

Charlotte Convention Center

Inside Charlotte Convention Center

Fountain Outside of Convention

NASCAR Hall of Fame

View Outside of Convention Center

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Missing Children

22 Aug 2012 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Feature Tags: Amber Alert, Family, Life

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Everyday in the United States children are abducted. It is important to take notice when any child is missing. It doesn’t matter whether they are a toddler or a teenager. I recently learned that a former co-workers 15 year old daughter is missing. I have decided to do what I do best by blogging about it as well as posting the flyer. We have a responsibility as adults to protect our youth. If you recognize this young girl or have any information please contact your local authorities. And please pass on this information so we can get Gabbiee back home with her family.

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Music Review: It Gleams

29 Jul 2012 4 Comments

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Music Tags: It Gleams, Kid Static, Music, Photography, Review

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This June It Gleams the latest album by Kid Static dropped. Last October, PaisleyPerspective interviewed KS and learned about plans for this new project. We were provided a hint of what was to come but remained mum until it went public. Now it’s here. We’ve given it a listen and decided to share our favorite five tracks. You can purchase It Gleams from iTunes or go to http://kidstatic.com to find out how to get your hands on the CD.

Courtesy of Kid Static

From the minute I popped my autographed CD into my car player (call me old school) I knew that I was in for a treat and I was not disappointed. Track one Moonlight had me bobbing my head to the beats that are categorized as rap but have a more eclectic feel. A unique remix of Beethoven’s Moonlight Sonata with electric keyboard accompanied by bass and drums reverberate the rich sound of the original. Moonlight pulls you into what will be a journey for ears, body, and feet. Check out the video below.

Track three Orange Crush like one of its background repeat lines is fun. This song will have you up and on the dance floor. Even though closer to the rap sound this track has deep bass and synthesizer sounds that give you a nostalgic feel. Just like orange crush soda you want to have another…listen or two. I can see this track being expanded into a long dance mix.

Courtesy of Kid Static

Track Five Breaking Down breaks away from the earlier tracks and takes you down a rockier path so to speak. With a clear rock inspired sound this song will have you up and fist pumping. From the drum intro we clearly know Kid Static is definitely not stuck to only one genre of music.

Track Eight Boxing Day a title that may make you think of the day following Christmas or a drag out argument between boyfriend and girlfriend. This track has a rap beat with the lyrical intelligence that Kid Static is known for putting in his music. Though the lyrics are rap based the background sounds are woven with an undercurrent of violin.

Courtesy of Kid Static

Track Eleven Keep In Touch has a clear hip hop sound with a blend of R&B beats this is a nice end to the journey through a album identified as rap but containing a mix of genres. Like track three this song will have you dancing. You might as well keep this CD on repeat because you will want to listen again….a few more times.

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PaisleyPerspective Supports President Obama

21 Jul 2012 1 Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in From The Editor Tags: 2012 Campaign, Endorsement, Life, Politics, President Obama

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President Barack Obama (United States)

Way back in February of 2007, I took the time to research and learn the issues important to each of the candidates vying for the Democratic nomination for the 2008 United States Presidential Election. I remember thinking that the candidate I would most likely support was Senator Hillary Clinton. However the result of my research lead me to supporting Senator Barack Obama. Quite simply then Senator Obama’s campaign website www.BarackObama.com clearly stated his agenda and what we felt about civil rights, women’s issues, the economy, and the environment; the top issues important to me. Senator Clinton’s website was a lot of fluff and didn’t contain the substance that I was seeking. We all know the campaign got very ugly when it turned out a little known Senator from Illinois was definitely in the lead to become the Democratic Parties nominee and then the next President. To this day, there are still those who are bitter about the outcome of Obama being selected over Clinton.

I stand today, still proud and supportive of President Obama and his administration. Nothing in life is perfect and efforts to reboot the economy are still being done but with that said, it is a reality that a President doesn’t have all power, as many may believe. Yes he is one of the primary leaders of the free world as well as one of the main people who helps to set the course of the country; however, it also takes efforts of the Congress to set legislation in place to help the country. Within the Obama Administration there have been a significant amount of accomplishments outside of Healthcare Reform, Wall Street Reform and other front-page agenda items such as reversal of Don’t Ask Don’t Tell. Over the next months leading up to the 2012 Presidential Election I will focus on the accomplishments of President Obama. So with that said this blogger and blog hold heartedly support the re-election of President Obama.

Over the past fours years the President has been given the title of an elitist, however, a few years prior to being elected as President, he and First Lady Michelle Obama paid student loans like most college educated Americans. The Obama’s if asked prior to moving to the White House could tell you how much their power bill was and knew how much a gallon of milk cost. I do not believe that former Gov. Romney has a pulse on what average citizens deal with each day. Nor does his wife have any idea how much a gallon of milk cost. Lets be real the Romney’s are high-end millionaires if not billionaires with offshore accounts. And this money was made not by building up American companies but in part by outsourcing American jobs to foreign countries. Even if Romney did step down from Bain Capital (which I doubt) he benefited as an investor of the unemployment of our fellow Americans.

I Am A Community Organizer

Regardless of your political beliefs it is important to research the candidates. With the use of the Internet it is easier to track and find out information about a candidate. This is a new world of campaigning where you cannot hide your dirty laundry or offshore accounts. President Obama’s record has been tracked by a number of non-partisan websites and PaisleyPerspective will take the time and effort to combine and bring you the accomplishments of the Obama Administration. As stated earlier we endorse and believe that the President should be re-elected. I choose the former Community Organizer over the former Corporate Raider any day.

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life equals IZMS OF art

18 Jul 2012 1 Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in General Article, Photo Tags: Art, izms of art, Life, Photography

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Wednesday, July 11^th during intense rainstorms outside was no match for the opening reception for Izms of Art visual art & photography exhibit titled “life equals IZMS OF art”. The exhibit is on display at 701 Whaley Street in Columbia, SC in the “Hallway Communityart Gallery” until July 31^st. The exhibit includes an eclectic mix of photography and paintings but not like your everyday oil canvasses. The reception was an art opening re-mixed with music spun by DJ B and stellar vocalist Venecia.

The exhibit includes still photography taken by a keen eye, which pulls you into each captured moment. Moving along the walls of the unique hall gallery you come across colorful works of mixed media. There are scenes of DJs spinning and moments of adult leisure depicted with oil, marker, as well as spray can. This is definitely not your momma’s art exhibit, well not unless your momma is Tahirah Spann who herself is an artist as well as helping ensure the business side of things are in order. Staying on task she quickly advised me “that all artwork is priced to sell, so if you see something you really like it can be yours.”

As found on their website (http://theblakmarket.com) Izms of Art is a southeast-based artist cooperative whose members and affiliates strive to push the boundaries of expression. Through the fusion of creative genres – visual art, graphic design, tattooing, and music production, Izms of Art is your direct link to quality creative products and services. You can also find them on Facebook.

Here is some of what you will find in the exhibit as well as their billboard located on Hampton St. and Gervais St. near downtown Columbia, SC.

Guest Viewing & Mingling

The Web by Dalvin “Mustafa” Spann, 2012

BRRR! by Victor Garcia, 2012

Beyond The Veil by Dalvin “Mustafa” Spann, 2012

Wiseman 1 by Jarrett “Un” Jenkins, 2012

Venecia – Local Vocal & Visual Artist

Izms of Art Billboard – Columiba, SC

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‘Nana Puddin’ Love

18 Jul 2012 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Photo, Poetry Tags: Food, Life, Poetry

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Dipped down deep into

something so sweet called

banana pudding. Crisp vanilla

cookie freshly madeby poetic hands.

Custard blended into smooth

goodness, glides lusciously

on the tongue. Bananas selected

just right, not to ripe.

Crack a cookie, spooned up

with custard and banana slices

in the mix…eats like happiness.

Leaving me with a ‘nana puddin’ smile.

‘Nana Puddin’ Love made by Monifa (Selah the Poet) Lemons-Jackson

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Veto of SC Arts Commission Budget Overridden

17 Jul 2012 Leave a Comment

by Paisley Blogger in Feature Tags: Arts, Life, Politics, South Carolina

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Look Up…Art is Everywhere

In a building that wouldn’t exist without the arts and creative vision is where the SC House of Representatives is holding a special session July 17th beginning at 1pm. On the agenda is a vote to override Gov. Haley’s 74 line vetoes of the South Carolina state budget including the cut of the SC Arts Commission, which is veto #1. There is beauty and creativity all around us, which is one reason why it is unimaginable that arts initiatives would be at jeopardy.

PaisleyPerspective decided to be present for the vote to override the veto that resulted in the recent statewide budget cuts. The cuts included funds used for sexual assault victims, SC Conservation Commission, one time raise for public school educators in addition to the drastic cut of the SC Arts Commission. Outlined in the agenda for the SC House listed are all 74 vetoes by Gov. Haley for the SC House to vote to override or sustain. The session was called to order at 1:05pm and general formalities such as an invocation and reciting of the U.S. pledge of allegiance took place.

Before The Voting

After the formality of recognizing visitors on the floor of the house as well as in the gallery the voting began. The vote to override veto #1 which took away funds for the SC Arts Commission began with discussion and concerns about the need to reorganize the commission. Within the visitor gallery constituents leaned forward anxiously awaiting the vote. The speaker called for roll call and a vote of 110 to 5 was cast to override veto #1, specifically Part IA, Page 120; Section 30 – Arts Commission, Total Funds Available: $3,446,946 Total Funds; $1,937,598 General Funds. There are a significant amount of other vetoes overridden, however, another controversial veto was #51 Part IB, Page 472; Section 90, Statewide Revenue, Proviso 90.20B, Non-recurring Revenue, Item 27(b), Department of Health and Environmental Control – SC Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault: $453,680 overridden with a vote of 111 to 0.

Funding Needed Everywhere

For details of other vetoes overridden or sustained go to http://scstatehouse.gov as well as to learn which representatives voted. Times like this when the fate of a whole agency is in the hands of state government demonstrates the importance of each citizen being engaged and informed. It is our tax dollars and our lives that are affected by the work done in the South Carolina General Assembly as well as work done at the local and federal levels. Understand what is at risk when you choose not to vote. PaisleyPerspective reiterates its founders motto, “your vote is your voice, don’t stay silent.”

By: G. Hughes

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About The Author: G. Hughes is an activist in the state of South Carolina where she believes in social awareness and justice. Ms. Hughes seeks to be fair and impartial when it comes to legislative matters, however, she primarily has liberal views. She is a fan and supporter of PaisleyPerspective and we thank her for this blog contribution.

Even In The Rain…They Came

16 Jul 2012 3 Comments

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Feature Tags: Art, Life, Politics, South Carolina

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Within the secrecy of her chambers on a Friday evening South Carolina Gov. Nikki Haley vetoed portions of the state budget that included funding for a one time teacher raise, money for victims of sexual assaults as well as funding for the SC Arts Commission. We all know how important education and victims assistance is but the arts also have a significant place and importance within our lives and culture. Art is all around us from the cars we drive to the buildings in which we work, to the clothes we wear as well as the television programs we watch, well you get the message. Art is in every aspect of our lives. What would radio be without music as well as print media? The monetary impact the arts have on Columbia has been written about, however, I want to share the human aspect and impact of Gov. Haley’s decision.

When the news hit about the veto the arts community did not hide and say okay we accept the decision instead they created a grassroots campaign. A campaign orchestrated by Natalie Brown founder and organizer of the Alternacirque located in Columbia, SC simply via a Facebook event, which resulted in artists of all genres attending and performing at “Rally for the Arts-Support the SC Arts Commission” on the grounds of the South Carolina State House. There were canvases set up with oil painting taking place as well as 10 minute poetry classes. Turn left and you might see an impromptu ballet performance, actors reciting ‘Hamlet’ then turn right and you might hear a high school string quartet or see a marionette puppet walk by.

The demographic of those in attendance at the rally was as diverse as the state; all ages, races, genders, economic incomes were present including Columbia, SC Mayor Steve Benjamin, State Rep. Bakari Sellers, and State Rep. Joe McCulloch. In addition there were arts community leaders showing support such as William Starrett, Artistic Director of the Columbia City Ballet, Lynn Forrest Hill, Artistic Director of the Columbia Marrionette Theatre, Al Black, Founder of Mind Gravy Poetry & Music Venue as well as a host of others active in the arts community. I myself being a poet who has benefited from SC Arts Commission funding via the Columbia Cultural Council understand the importance of arts funding, especially when the arts bring in billions, yes billions of dollars in revenue to South Carolina.

Check out the photos of this historic and emotional day when the South Carolina arts community came out even in the rain.

Dancing for Support of the Arts

Student Musicians

“Some of our best musical artist are products of public school art programs from Elvis Presley to Aretha Franklin and even Michael Jackson” ~Sherri Earle, Singer

Playing the Bass

Poet & Puppeteer

Singing for Arts Support

Graphic Edginess

Topsy Turvy – Capturing the Moment

Playing in the Rain

Well Stated

Painting & Acting

Soul Stirring Singing

Arts Supporter – Mayor Benjamin

Teaching Poetry

“There is no us against them mentality here we [artist/creative people] are in this together. We are just trying to shed light and contrast through our work.” ~Cassie Premo Steele, Poet & Writer

Drumming for the Arts

Even in the Rain…They Came

SUPPORT ARTS FUNDING !!!

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Saturday Thrifting With Friends

08 Jul 2012 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Feature Tags: #ilovethrifting, Art, Life, shopping, vintage

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I am the first to admit that I love to shop but above all I am always looking for a good deal. I do not necessarily want to find a cheap item but I specifically look for well made merchandise at a good price. From time to time, I have wondered into a consignment shop and found a piece of clothing or jewelry including one of my favorite skirts. As a child my mother and I would visit the local Salvation Army or Goodwill stores looking for books not because it was hip but as a necessity to a tight budget. Most often, I shop retail big chain stores looking for deals, however yesterday while participating in an event titled ‘i love thrifting’ my eyes were opened. Some of the best deals around town are hidden in plain view at local thrift and vintage stores.

With a sisterfriend and newfound shopping buddies I rummaged around three top-notch thrift and vintage stores. We started at Thrift Avenue located at 1078 Sunset Blvd in West Columbia, SC; a store with a connecting warehouse packed with good deals that fit everybody’s taste and budget. The bookworm in me found a collection of Charles Schultz books, while another thriftier found a functioning Olympus 35mm SLR camera for $20 in leather case with lens intact. There were also purchases of household items including a table lamp. Excitedly we checked in on Facebook uploading photos and tweeting being sure to include the #ilovethrifting hash tag.

Our next stop took us about a mile away to Tri-City Pickers Thrift Store located at 633 12^th St. also in West Columbia where there was a galore of furniture and household items. By the way the theme of this years event was home furnishings. However, there was not a lot of furniture purchased at our second stop but household items such as a crystal punch bowl with cups was bought by a happy thrifter. In addition, there was a lot of jewelry including a funky 70’s style banana necklace that I am certain will be worn & loved by a fun fashionista.

The third and final stop on the thrifting tour was The Atomic Owl located at 505 12^th Street in West Columbia. Entering through the doors, where you were greeted by shopkeeper Nelson put you into a retro type of mind. From the records (yes you remember they are pressed out of vinyl) to the kitchen table with royal blue chairs there was something for everyone. Especially a very comfortable upholstered chair and side table combination that I think I have seen on episodes of “I Dream of Jeannie”. The best deal purchased here was yet again not furniture but a vintage Audrey Hepburn styled hat red with a white band.

I am forever inspired and motivated by my adventure into the thrifty retro world of resale shops. Nothing compares to well made merchandise that has stood the test of time and even circled back to become stylish yet again. But lets admit does good design ever really go out of style, I think not. So the next time you are looking for a good deal try your local thrift store or vintage shop. These businesses are usually locally owned and the money goes back into the community. And organizations like Goodwill help to train and employee the unemployed.

I know you are curious about the ‘i love thrifting’ event and when and where the next one will take place, so read the next blog to learn more about this unique and fun event but first check out some photos below.

Local Co-Organizer J. Simmons

Some Goodies at Thrift Avenue

Vintage Pyrex Bowl at Tri-City Pickers

Throwback Party Planning at The Atomic Owl

The Top Banana from Tri-City Pickers

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#ilovethrifting

08 Jul 2012 Leave a Comment

by Joyce M. Rose-Harris in Feature Tags: #ilovethrifting, Art, Design, Life, shopping

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The shopping event ‘i love thrifting’ took place in West Columbia, SC as well as other locations around the United States including Baltimore, MD; Atlanta, GA and even Denver, CO. Its creator Rashon Carraway is a rising design star in the area of home and men’s fashion who has appeared on the Nate Berkus Show. He is also the founder of the blog ‘Mr. Goodwill Hunting’. I asked one of his local organizers Jernell Simmons of the West Columbia, SC event a few questions to learn more about this fun and fabulous idea.

Paisley: How was the ‘i love thrifting’ concept derived and by whom?

ILT: It was created to celebrate the joys and wonder of thrifting. The creator of the idea is Rashon Carraway (http://rashoncarraway.com).

Paisley: How many years and how often are ‘i love thrifting’ events held?

ILT: The event is once per year and this is our second year.

Paisely: How do you select the stores and how can an owner be a part of a future event?

ILT: We look at proximity and sections of cities/towns that have thrift stores, then we contact the owners to see if they would be interested in participating. Interested stores in South Carolina can contact Jernell Simmons (803) 575-0524 or Shanika Pickney (803) 447-2713 of Self Created – Lifestyle PR and Event Planning (www.selfcreatedpr.com) as well as via email at marketing@selfcreatedpr.com .

Paisley: When is the next ‘i love thrifting’ event?

ILT: The 2013 date is still being confirmed, usually we provide the date three months in advance. Be sure to check out Rashon’s blog for updates or hit him up on Twitter (@MrGWHunting), he is very responsive.

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